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YOUR CAVEMAN
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A podcast where we study the tools for anxiety mastery
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In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses a powerful tool for managing anxiety in both the short and long term—gratitude. Sharing personal experiences of long COVID, Dr. Twitchell explains how a daily gratitude practice helped alleviate anxiety and improve overall well-being. Drawing from scientific research and personal anecdotes, the episode highlights the broad-ranging benefits of gratitude, including reduced inflammation, better sleep, and enhanced emotional resilience. Dr. Twitchell offers practical tips for starting a gratitude practice. The episode concludes with a listener-contributed story, a “Kindness Narrative,” that will aid all listeners in starting a painless weekly gratitude practice.
Learn practical methods for applying the technique of self-talk in various situations, from quick interventions during the day to nighttime anxiety management. Dr. Twitchell shares personal examples and guides on thinking, speaking, and writing to oneself in the third person to regulate emotions, providing a comprehensive framework to approach anxiety mindfully. Gain insights on self-transcendence and leveraging the emotion of awe for a broader perspective, and understand how incorporating these practices daily can aid in emotional regulation and mental well-being.
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This episode explains how to observe rather than be overwhelmed by your feelings. It also highlights the power of using third-person pronouns to defuse emotional intensity and presents studies showing their effectiveness in managing anxiety and improving performance under stress. Practical exercises for implementing these techniques are provided to help listeners climb out of the emotional mud puddle and achieve better emotional regulation and clarity.
In this episode, wediscuss the important strategy of approaching anxiety instead of avoiding it. Highlighting insights from the book 'The Upside of Your Dark Side,' Dr. Twitchell explains how modern comfort has increased our sensitivity to discomfort, and how avoidance can amplify anxiety. She proposes a three-step strategy to approach anxiety: 1) Finding a long-term purpose that prioritizes enduring values over short-term comfort, 2) Articulating emotions in detail to defuse them, and 3) Gradually exposing oneself to anxiety triggers to make them familiar and reduce their impact. Dr. Twitchell emphasizes that managing anxiety effectively requires intentional approaching rather than avoidance.
Dr. Twitchell explores how creating the right types of goals can help achieve a state of inner harmony and reduce anxiety. She emphasizes the importance of goals that enhance autonomy and create inner order, distinguishing between genetic and cultural programming versus conscious goal setting. Dr. Twitchell also shares personal anecdotes and strategies to balance goal demands with available resources, ensuring they are neither too hard nor too easy, thus facilitating a flow state. Practical advice on adjusting goals to fit within one's resources and focusing on process-oriented goals is provided to help listeners cultivate a satisfying and harmonious relationship with their goals.
Join Dr. Twitchell in this New Year's episode as she discusses the importance of optimism and a challenge mindset in predicting and coping with future stressors. Dr. Twitchell explains how our appraisals and predictions shape our emotional and physiological responses, as well as our ability to solve problems and collaborate with others. Learn about the differences between threat and challenge mindsets, and practical ways to cultivate a more optimistic outlook for the coming year.
Join Dr. Twitchell in this special Christmas episode of 'Calm Your Caveman' to explore the profound impact of awe on our mental and physical well-being. Learn about Professor Dacher Keltner's insights on the psychological need for awe, its various benefits such as reduced anxiety and depression, and its ability to expand our circle of care. Discover eight pathways to experience awe daily, including moral beauty, collective movement, nature, music, and more. Dr. Twitchell also shares her personal 'daily awe hygiene' practice and explains how cultivating awe can enrich our lives year-round.
Dive into practical ways to manage your dopamine budget to help regulate emotions and combat anxiety. Building on last week's discussion about the dopamine system, Dr. Twitchell shares personal experiences of post-trip and post-accomplishment lows, illustrating how understanding and anticipating dopamine fluctuations can prevent these lows from having a lasting negative impact. She explains the importance of self-binding to prevent overspending your dopamine budget and describes how purposeful engagement in challenging activities can trigger beneficial dopamine responses. Dr. Twitchell also touches on how periods of abstinence can reset dopamine levels and improve overall pleasure sensitivity. As the holiday season approaches, listeners are guided to manage seasonal dopamine triggers and are given a preview of next week's topic on the emotion of awe. This episode is packed with actionable insights to help you maintain emotional balance year-round.
Dr. Twitchell delves into the crucial topic of managing your dopamine budget for effective anxiety management. Drawing on insights from three experts—psychiatrists Daniel Z. Lieberman and Dr. Anna Lemke, and neurobiologist Andrew Huberman—Dr. Twitchell explores the role of dopamine in pleasure, motivation, and anxiety. The episode highlights how our modern environment overstimulates the dopamine system, leading to anxiety and addiction, and offers strategies for managing dopamine levels through conscious regulation and moderation.
In this episode, the focus is on understanding and managing body image anxiety. The discussion delves into common misconceptions and ineffective methods for addressing body anxiety, such as cosmetic surgery and weight loss. The episode emphasizes the importance of changing our mental relationship with body image rather than altering physical appearance. Dr. Twitchell shares personal experiences and effective strategies, including mindfulness, reappraisal techniques, and finding a sense of purpose beyond physical appearance.
Delve into the profound effects of mindfulness meditation on anxiety and explore practical ways to incorporate it into your daily life. Dr. Twitchell discusses the scientific backing of mindfulness and its benefits, emphasizing the importance of practice for achieving mastery. Discover how starting with tiny, manageable habits can make mindfulness a natural part of your routine, helping you stay present and calm amidst the chaos of modern life.
Dive into the therapeutic power of music as a tool for anxiety management. Join us as we explore the science behind why music can be so effective in soothing anxious minds and how you can incorporate it into your daily routine to foster calm and resilience.
In this episode, we explore the pervasive issue of living in a constant state of high alert and its impact on our anxiety levels. Drawing insights from Alan Gordon's book "The Way Out," we discuss how modern life's constant bombardment of notifications and alerts keeps us perpetually stressed. By examining statistics from the Gallup 2019 Global Emotions Report, we highlight the prevalence of stress in today's society and delve into how our brains, evolved for a low-stimulation environment, struggle to cope with this constant high alert state. Tune in to gain valuable insights and practical tips for reducing anxiety by breaking free from the high alert habit, helping you cultivate a calmer and more balanced life.
In this episode, Dr. Christopher Minson, a renowned human physiologist and co-founder of NatureQuant, delves into the significant mental and physical health benefits of spending time in nature. Dr. Minson discusses the physiological responses to natural environments and the evidence supporting nature's positive impact on reducing stress, anxiety, and depression. He emphasizes the concept of "forest bathing," the importance of fractal patterns in nature, and introduces practical ways to incorporate nature into daily life.
In this episode, we explore the strategy of arranging and exercising control over your physical environment as a method to minimize anxiety. The discussion includes a deep dive into how modifying your living space can influence your emotional responses indirectly by affecting the appraisal processes.
In this episode of 'Calm Your Caveman,' Dr. Twitchell discusses the concept of managing your energy budget to alleviate anxiety. She emphasizes this is a situational strategy with indirect influence on anxiety regulation. The limits of situational strategies are discussed, given that people are notoriously bad at predicting their future emotional states, a concept known as affective forecasting. This often leads to overestimation of how happy or sad future situations will make them feel. With this understanding established however, situational strategies can be effectively leveraged as one of the many tools available for anxiety management. Drawing from her personal experience with chronic fatigue during long COVID, she explains how overspending your physical and mental resources can lead to heightened stress and anxiety. The episode details how to be mindful of energy expenditure, prioritize essential tasks, and ensure sufficient rest and self-care to maintain a healthy balance. Listeners are encouraged to understand their personal limits and make conscious choices to support their overall well-being. Dr. Twitchell also touches upon situational strategies, outlining their potential and limitations in indirectly influencing emotional experiences.
October 14, 2024
Know Your Context: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies (Part III)
In this episode, Dr. Twitchell discusses the second foundational strategy for anxiety mastery, which is understanding and knowing your context. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing different levels of emotional distress and matching appropriate strategies to those levels. The episode explores how high cognitive load strategies can be practiced during low anxiety periods and how strategies can become automatic through practice. Dr. Twitchell also introduces concepts from Veilleux et al. and Dr. James Gross, discussing automatic appraisals and the need to practice strategies proactively.
October 7, 2024
Ana Regina Cardoso Models Anxiety Management Through Meaningful Living
In this episode, we move from theory to practice. Where the last three episodes focused on the theory of finding your "why," this episode explores application: an interview with Ana Regina Cardoso is presented as a form of modeling, offering listeners a concrete example of how “finding your why” can be applied in real life. She shares her experiences of caring for her sick mother at a young age and how these early responsibilities shaped her concept of a life purpose. From coordinating community aid during the pandemic to supporting the elderly through art projects, Ana’s story is a powerful testament to how hardship can be transformed into a life of purpose and service.
September 30, 2024
Dr. Thomas Nielsen Part II: Embracing Self-Compassion for a Meaningful Life
In the second part of our enlightening conversation with Dr. Thomas W. Nielsen, we delve deeper into the concept of meaningful happiness. Dr. Nielsen shares profound insights on the practical application of self-care principles, encapsulated in the acronym "SELF CARE AIMS." This episode explores the importance of balancing self-care and compassion with giving to others, emphasizing the role of self-compassion over mere self-esteem. Dr. Nielsen discusses the significance of autonomy, environment, achievement, and more, providing actionable advice on nurturing these areas to enhance overall well-being. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to cultivate a fulfilling, purpose-driven life, and “find their why” as a foundational starting point for anxiety management.
September 23, 2024
Dr. Thomas Nielsen Part I: Finding the Keys to Meaningful Happiness
In this special two-part series, we delve into the intricate relationship between meaning and happiness with Dr. Thomas W. Nielsen, an associate professor at the University of Canberra and an expert in wellbeing and values education. In Part I, Dr. Nielsen explores the essential elements that contribute to meaningful happiness, challenging the common misconception that material wealth is a primary source of joy. He emphasizes the importance of finding purpose and contributing to something beyond oneself, highlighting how these aspects are crucial for sustaining long-term happiness and managing anxiety. Dr. Nielsen shares compelling research findings that demonstrate the limited role of circumstances and material possessions in achieving true happiness. Instead, he discusses how engaging in meaningful activities and giving to others significantly enhances well-being and resilience, even in the face of adversity. The conversation also touches on the alarming rise in youth depression and suicide rates, linking these issues to a lack of perceived meaning in modern life. Listeners will gain insights into practical ways to cultivate meaning in their lives, the psychological and physiological benefits of giving, and how these practices can lead to a more fulfilled and joyful existence. This episode sets the stage for Part II, where Dr. Nielsen will delve deeper into the nuances of giving, especially for those who may struggle with over-giving and burnout.
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September 16, 2024
Find Your Why Continued: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies Part II
In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, Dr. Twitchell deepens the conversation on finding your purpose as a foundational strategy for mastering anxiety. Building upon the previous discussion, this episode emphasizes the power of a clear 'why' to navigate complex emotional events and conflicting inner valuations. Dr. Twitchell explores how a defined purpose helps in choosing the right emotional regulation strategies and ensuring efficient resource allocation. Real-life examples, including job dissatisfaction and social anxiety, illustrate how identifying long-term values can guide critical life decisions. Additionally, the episode encourages writing exercises to bring subconscious values to the surface, thereby fostering greater emotional autonomy and resilience.
September 9, 2024
Find Your Why: Foundational Anxiety Management Strategies Part I
In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, the focus shifts from anxiety concepts to introducing foundational strategies for managing anxiety, specifically 'Finding Your Why.' Dr. Twitchell reviews the emotion generation process and the four families of regulation strategies, emphasizing the importance of choosing suitable strategies based on personal context and goals. Finding your purpose, or 'why,' is highlighted as it reduces anxiety by altering the brain's perception of demands and resources, increasing autonomy, and fostering persistence. The episode also offers practical exercises to help listeners identify their life purpose and overarching goals.
September 2, 2024
Emotion Regulation Secrets: Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part III
In this episode of the Anxiety Master Key Concepts, we delve into Dr. James J. Gross's renowned process model of emotion regulation. We explore the intricacies of how emotions are generated and regulated, emphasizing the importance of influencing emotions by intervening at key points in the cycle: situation, perception, appraisal, and response. The episode provides foundational knowledge necessary for effectively employing anxiety management strategies, highlighting the conceptual framework of emotion processes and the need for adaptability in coping methods.
August 26, 2024
Is Stress Good or Bad For You? Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part II
In this episode of Calm Your Caveman, the discussion picks up from previous sessions on anxiety master key concepts focusing on the appraisal theory as a tool for regulating emotions. Dr. Twitchell explains how appraisals, our brain's interpretations of situations, determine whether emotions are helpful or harmful by aligning with our goals. The episode delves into the dimensions of appraisal: desirability, attribution, and expectancy, and how they influence our emotional responses in stressful situations. Special emphasis is placed on understanding the challenge versus threat response – the former being when demands are met by our resources, producing adaptive and facilitating stress, and the latter when demands exceed our resources, leading to detrimental and lingering stress. Practical tips are given for recognizing and altering these responses. Dr. Twitchell references key studies and provides resources for further exploration.
August 19, 2024
Emotions Unlocked: Anxiety Master Key Concepts Part I
Dr. Twitchell delves into the appraisal theory of emotion, emphasizing its role in understanding 1) what emotions we should regulate and 2) how regulation is done (the basic principles behind the regulation process). The first question, about knowing which emotions to regulate, or knowing when emotions are helpful or harmful, is addressed by explaining that emotions evolved to help us adapt to our environment. Dr. Twitchell highlights the evolutionary purpose of emotions and contrasts them with rigid reflexes. She explains that we can determine the helpfulness of our emotions according to whether they are adaptive or maladaptive for our circumstances.
August 12, 2024
You Need an Anxiety Master Key
Dr. Twitchell discusses the concept of an "anxiety master key," a foundational tool for effective anxiety management. She outlines four essential questions that this master key addresses: 1. How to distinguish between adaptive (helpful) and maladaptive (harmful) anxiety. 2. How to cultivate helpful emotions and down-regulate harmful ones. 3. How to choose the right strategies for different situations. 4. How to implement these strategies effectively.
August 5, 2024
Introductory Episode
In the first episode of "Calm Your Caveman," Dr. Adriana Jarvis Twitchell introduces herself and her qualifications in anxiety management. She shares her lifelong struggle with anxiety and how a chronic illness intensified her need to manage it. This led her to focus her doctoral research on anxiety management strategies.